If you're unemployed then why on earth do you still have your car? Wouldn't it be better and easier to sell this, remove that loan, and put any money available against paying your second credit card?
The first and most important thing to do is reign in your spending and get disciplined - you say that debt is putting a strain on you, but it's not - it's your over-spending and inability to live within a budget that is causing the strain.
So the most important point at this stage is to stop overspending - determine your income and what you need to live on, and spend only according to that - not outside of it.
Also, get a job - any job - if it helps bring in more income than unemployment.
Hope that helps.